perkahwinan berdasarkan seks or perkongsian

salam n afternoon..sempena hari jumaat yg mulia ni tah nape la topic blog aku agak luar biasa sket hehehe...i'm watching wanita hari ini for the segment tilam dan bantal and these are the issues they discussed about..for me its quite interesting as for me sbg seorg wanita kan..and for those out there yg still unmarried or dh married..

maybe to a certain ppl they've got their own point of view in marriage...but for me marriage it's about sharing,responsibilities,respect towards each other and love nonetheless to our partners..
mana mungkin sesuatu perkahwinan tu dibina hanya berdasarkan seks semata2..or perkongsian dua individu tetapi tak diiringi dgn seks pun juga tak mencapai apa yg dimaksudkan dgn the whole of marriage.tapi nowadays kita boleh tgk yg mostly a new couple yg lead to a marriage life mcm x tau pe objective or what they truly wants in it...ada yg nak kawin hanya nak menghalal kan yg haram or nak kawin coz parents dh membebel...or nak kawin coz sume org dah kawin(yg last ni aku calssify kan as a loser)...you dont just get married becoz everybody around you had been through it!adalah sgt cetek pemikiran insan2 sedemikian...pitty.

nak cari partner yg till death do us part tu bg aku la...hmmmm...adalah sgt2 mencabar dan bkn senang mcm kita fikirkan...(if not i've been a mummy now ok with bunch of kids in a row hehehe).nak cari keserasian utk berkongsi hidup dgn gender berlawanan memerlukan a lot of sacrifices and tolerance..give and take...x boleh fikir tentang diri sendiri and kena buang jauh2 the egoistic attitude in you.tp bila persefahaman tu dah dicapai,and u can feel it yourself (many ppl telling me bout this that u can feel it whether he's the one for u or not..honestly i've never felt that way until now..kottt... heheheh with any mens so far) that he's the one for u to spend the whole life together than only you'll proceed to the next level which is kahwin la of course..

mcm ade one of my ex-colleague Mrs A,she told me that after delivering her 1st baby the excitement to making love are not as excited as before the first time their married..coz her reasons are..."ko dah kawin sok ko tau la camne...penat dgn nak jaga anak,masak,kemas umah...then nk bgn pagi mandi sume..its just too hectic for me!" ok maybe she's right i'm not married yet but still la sebagai isteri dah mmg tanggungjawab ok utk memberi nafkah batin kepada suami if requested or else berdosa besar if kita menolak...then jgn la merungut bila suami cari lain in the end...mcm one of the panel in wanita hari ini (WHI) die explain...tak igt la nama ustaz tu...he said that sex tu adalah salah satu medium utama dlm perkahwinan coz die menggabungkan dua jiwa...which is kasih syg suami dan isteri...so cherish the moment dan amalkan sebagai konsisten dlm hidup berumahtangga..




ada satu statement ustaz ni that i'm totally agreed with...he said that as a wife u should groomed yourself la for your hubby...ni ada kat umh dgn berkain batik...baju klawar (wahahahah xleh blah yg ni)..rambut mengerbang..tapi bila nak keluar jln2 or shopping perfume semerbak dah blh bau..lipstick selagi tak makngah tak sah..so all that thing la we as a woman should bear in mind...
and of course not to mention for the guys as well...korg tak exception ok...coz if bini jaga badan tp suami memboroi kan perut di dpn tv pun tak guna gak..aku rase if pompuan ni dibolehkan kahwin 4...dah lama dah pompuan kat malaysia ni berpoligami..

for me..i always and always believe in the old fashion way that marriage will last forever..
x kira la mcm mane dugaan from the outsiders or whatever it takes..cuba sedaya upaya save the marriage and have the problems solved...when there's always a will there's a way right?

P/S:mintak la aku dijauhkan dari mempunyai taste memakai baju kelawar itu ya ampunnnnn...bg aku dr berkelawar baik ko berkemban je..sexy pun sexy gak..takyah nak unbutton ke apa ngehe..

end of july..hello august!

bila dipikir2 balik kejap je masa berlalu kan...dah half year of 2009...and this coming saturday will be august...and lagi sbulan gak la age ku akan menjangkau ke angka 28..fuhhhh how time flies isnt it?but hey..age is just a number pun hehehe (nk sedapkan ati aku konon2 nya..) but deep inside my heart im still young n vibrant! :-)

ok enough bout the age thingy...the thing is starting today till sunday i'll be alone at home since mama n uncle and the rest of my aunties and uncles went to labuan for a holiday.....how cool is that when i'm trapped here in the shop and later on boohoo!but its ok..i'm fine here,coz this is the only time i got to have my own sweet "ME" time...its only me..somehow once in awhile its good for you to spend your own quality time only by yourself...anything would be great by doing it alone...pamper yourself to spa...watch dvd at home...cook my favorite meal (fyi...whenever my mum's around she'll be doing all the cooking...don't tell me i'm a lazy bum or what aaa...its true,she'd rather be alone coz she said when i'm around its like a one hell of turbulence in the kitchen...liar ok)

so i'm planning to watch dvd tonite...ade a few yg aku bli aritu tak sempat nak tgk...since aku tak amik heavy lunch td so it'll be great to cook something hearty meals for me tonite...so tgh cari resipi2 yg ringkas tp sgt lazat!soooo..... its freedom for me till this weekend!hehehehe


welcoming the month of august with greater faith and many happy returns in my life and yours too!

pada sape2 yg x ganti posa tu lagi dgn segera la laksanakan ia hehehehe...sebab aku dah ganti awal2,dgn kembangnye hahahaha...kalo takkk... selagi tak last minute selagi tu la tak terbuat..

cheers!

dreams,passion and reality

talking bout dreams..your hope in life..its beyond our expectations ain't it?but reality in it we've been thinking to achieve all of our goals in life...striving for it and give 100%..and the rest we let allah s.w.t blessed us and answer our prayers..
since i was a little kid i've always dreamed about traveling around the globe...eating cotton candy n just have a jolly good time!but my huge dreams will be until now..(hehehehe kalo aku kawin jutawan la kan..) to settled down in an island...redang n perhentian would be nice hehhee...with a huge mansion facing the sea view...haihhhhh...always berangan la me..but hey that's what i'm talking bout..dreams

hahaha how poyo would it be..i'm officially complete n perfect with these kindda lifestyle..with the clear blue ocean and the kids chasing around each other...then suddenly i can see from the thought bubble of my mum ..."ko dah xde tempat lain lagi ke nk duduk?x kuasa aku panas2 terik umh ngadap laut,sunburn aku"....
but my passion with the sea sand sunrise...the blue sky...crystal clear water are totally un seperable..its one of my tranquility towards a serene life....now i really missed all those buddies back there in long beach..
ok reality check now!watever you've been dreaming of,have a faith in it...we'll never know we might be lucky wont we ;-)

customer yg laha dan richard gere

I've been working with my family buss since end 2007 after i resigned from my prev comp in subang perdana...after i weight the pros n cons than only i decided to work with my family which they've been in the buss for almost 12 years now...of course its easy for everyone out there telling me "alaaa keja je la dgn family lagi senang pe.." and.."if aku jadi ko,dah lama ok aku nk ade buss sendiri" and etc...yes i totally agreed with all..but the truth is for me la...i want to learn from experience working with others first,but after my prev comp came to a major mangement difficulties and they wanted to retrenched staffs so i think i made a decision to start seriously with the buss...
so normally when you're involved with buss,there's load of customers attitude u have to deal with..ade yg blagak tp xde duit..yg humble but filthy rich n so on...so since end of 2007 alhamdulillah i'd never failed to treat my customer top fairly and equally...untilllllll laaaa tadi!huh...ni yg nk marah...tp dh slamat pun kena marah boohoo!ko dah tau jerseys mmg la sgt mahal apa tah lg when u talk about retro jerseys..hellooo we're talking bout qualities here ok...if u wanna somekind of fake/rubbish merchandises u go get your self somewhere else la...so when my blood cant control any longer i let loose my anger accidently...(actually more like purposely hahahahahhaha!!gelak evil) to dat bloody customer...hamik ko!sampai terdiam n tertunduk..im not like a crazy b***h yg nk marah customer tak tentu pasal k...but attitude darling...attitude...respect yourself than likewise will be upon you...in the end he said sorry and we're cool..
sooooo...to get me cool off a bit...terus bukak lagu "fallen" by lauren wood...from the soundtrack "pretty woman"...errr motif?xde sebenanyee..just ter'imagine' richard gere bwk aku naik private jet n go to some place to unwind....cesss poyo.so for those out there who swooonnnn by richard gere's movies especially pretty woman...hope this'll make up your day :-)

blast from the past

today im stranded almost an hour and a half in cc at sec 2...my anticipation to scanned all the old pics during my yester years pumping since last week ok!my cuzin went back to my arwah nenek's place in seremban...so its kindda mixed feelings inside me...all the emotional n melodrama thingy struck into my head n heart..haiihhhhh..miss la those moment back then...me n all my cuzins we've got some kind of colorful experienced when we as a kid...we have this special bonding between us...masa tu la zaman2 paling comot dan nakal tahap poyo aku rase..but we truly had a great time...especially during raya...so to share with all of u guys...here a some of the pics that i scanned....bnyk sebenanya coz the whole boxes full with albums...but i only sort out few of it..so enjoy! :-)

this is moi during i cant remember what month is it hehehe....

me and the rest of the early clans

busu and her sond yiyi n i at my home in labuan

mama and i somewhere in frasers hill..if im not mistaken la..


ayah and i in england garden


kenapakah badan aku masa kecik adalah sgt tayar michellin hahhahahahha!

and it all begins here..

morning...its nearly 10.50 am now..and as usual im in the shop..and hungry like hell...havent had my breakfast yet,mcm biasala aku pepagi dtg kedai akan on pc..check emails...on facebook...and other few website termasuk la blog2 entries fav aku...and in the same time download movies...heheheh...tu dinamakan multitask yg tersgt poyo...bkn efficient pun...

as u all know these are my first entrees...its been a long time pun i've been wanted to have my own blog..but in the end after draft and draft tak ter post2 gak blog gue..so i think this is it la...after asking my pet sis (thank u kak rina hehe) camne nk register and all...maka tercipta nya blog diriku..."the journey of me.." hmmm...how i got the tittle...its simple,aku nk post blog yg dtg nya from inside me..share my part of life,tp agak terlewat sket la coz dh age tua2 ni kan baru nk post blog hehehe...btw writing always been my passion ever since i was in secondary lagi..dulu hari2 aku tulis diary..dah mcm habit...balik skolah surely mlm2 before tido akan tulis...padahal time skolah tu bukannya ade interesting stories pun nak di jot down hehehe...tak pasal cikgu...homework n crush ahhahahahaha! dont play2 ar...of course what u've got a crush back then during school days...tell me who doesnt la...

so enough bout the ol days..insyallah i try to update every now and then with my blogs..with my own kind of writting...and my own kind of words..and from now,see u in my next blog!..muahhhhhss!!